just joshin'.



but, i did, however, actually start cards super early! to all my lovelies recieving cards, they should be done really really soon!

i mailed *Crazysparkles06's card today, and *Horsesnhurricanes will go out tomorrow.

But, to all of you to whom I owe digital work, it might be slightly delayed. For two reasons. One, my computer (laptop) is completely broken (screen from base; the chords are still attached) and it might be able before I get another computer. So, bear with me.

Oh and I think I broke my finger again.

Or it has early arthritis from the previous break. Or the ligaments are deteriorating.

Alright, so let me lay out the situation.

Say you are dating the person you really like. Your best friend is also happily friends with your boyfriend/girlfriend. Now, say your best friend was also best friends with another person. Now, you have no problem with this other person. You don't like them, you don't not like them. Your bf/gf is also casual friends with them.

Now, say over the summer you and your beloved broke up (sorry, guyses). It was messy. They cheated on you. You don't talk anymore. Also, your best friend's friend msteriously stopped all contact with them (tragic, i know). Somehow your friend's friend and your ex end up becoming bff.

When you get back to school in the fall, everything is different. You previously inseperable bf/gf won't look you in the eye, and is attached at the hip to the astranged friend. Your best friend takes their friend aside and asks them why they're avoiding them. The friend answers that your friend makes them crazy. A huge, yet quiet, verbal fight ensues.

Your best friend and and their friend now hate each other. You decide to remain neutral. It's hard to be neutral though, because your friend talks a lot of smack now. Eventually you are sorta-kinda ont thier side.

Now, you and your friend are kinda angry because you lost all your guy/girl friends because of you breaking up with your bf/gf. So your best friend tells you to make up with your ex. You agree to, ready to get your friends back. That friday you agree to meet with your best friend, your ex, and another one of your old good friends.

You have a great time. But, did we mention the other, astranged friend considered your old friend and ex coming with you them choosing your side? Apparently that is the case. They post a scathing fb status about how you and your best friend are liars, and not real friends to your ex and old friend. You decide to take the high road and ignore it.

However, things continue to escalate. The astranged friend now also is now taking stabs at you personally. Your old friend is infatuated with him/her, and has been for awhile, so now treats you like dirt - for no reason. The friend carries on extensive public conversations about what a bad person you are.

You find out your ex still likes you, and you still like them. They express to you a desire to return to dating you. You play coy and hold them off, but they are definitely under your spell. At this point, unrelated to them liking you again, the friend is now violently cursing your ex out. This, you don't appiriate too much. Your ex ends up furious with them and firmly on you and your best friend's side, along with all but one of your old friends, who is infatuated with the astranged friend.

Now, the friend is desperate. They write books; 7 page long texts saying how they are sorry for cursing your friends out and they love them. Naturally, they don't buy it.

Until about 3 weeks later. You have developed a strong hate for the friend, who personally antagonizes you and attacks your character behind your back. After about 3 days of books, your ex decides they'll relent and be friends with her again, "to prevent drama." There's no use arguing over "stupid stuff". You are slightly put off because 1) this person is horribly cruel to you and 2) your ex has liked this person, and you fear they might still harbor feelings for the friend...just as you and your ex finally start dating again.

What to do?

a) Say you're happy for them being friends again
b) Express your extreme discontent
c) Say you can't support their decision, and act passive-agressive.
d) other?

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